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Title: When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt ISBN: 1-890159-23-9 Publisher: Greenery Press (CA) Pub. Date: 15 September, 2000 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $15.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 4.71 (7 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: You might want to get two copies
Comment: I bought this book to give to my sister. I ended up buying a second copy to keep for myself.
I don't think any book can be a substitute for an honest, thoughtful conversation, but this book certainly helps with those difficult questions that come up. It is very honest but gentle. It is easy to read, and full of compassion for both the nonkinky reader and the kinky person.
The surprise for me was how much I appreciated the book for myself. It includes a number of "coming out" letters the authors collected--letters kinky people wrote and wished they dared to send to their families and friends. Some of these were deeply touching.
There is such a sense of dignity and honesty in this book, it kept reminding me of reasons why being kinky person is something to be proud of. I ended up holding my head a little higher, feeling a little more confident and comfortable with myself.
And my sister loved the book too!
Rating: 5
Summary: A Key to the Closet
Comment: Discussing alternative and controversial sexualities is the raison detre of Greenery Press. This one goes further by directly addressing those not already in the choir (whether in or out of the closet). What a challenge! Even the authors acknowledge that they're so immersed in kink culture that they've lost a certain amount of objectivity.
The chapters follow the classic recipe for a successful scene: start slower than slow, lighter than light, and build up from there. A gentle introduction is followed by a check-in, with reminders to breathe and relax. Terms are defined, practices are described, and safety issues are given high priority. For the reader left wanting more, there's a resources guide.
Keeping in mind the reactionary skepticism I felt when one of my friends joined a religious cult, I wondered how effective this book would be in soothing a non-kinkster. Some of the more explicit passages - such as a lighthearted description of a birthday kidnapping orgy - might have Aunt Matilda calling for the funny wagon. This book would best be preceded by some deep heart-to-heart conversations between the loved ones, rather than offered as the initial coming out gesture. Perhaps it doesn't need saying, but I would recommend that the person coming out would benefit by reading the entire thing before offering it to Dad. Which brings me to an important point.
Easton and Liszt specifically address family, friends, mates, and health practitioners throughout the book. An unexpected side-effect was that I - an emerging-from-the-closet kinkster - found a deeper understanding and acceptance of myself and my desires. This could be the best BDSM introduction yet.
Rating: 4
Summary: I can relate to this book
Comment: When I first started in Bondage some 20+ years ago, this was a very sensitive subject. Even today, in 2002, some people feel that bondage is for homosexuals and weirdos.So if you are having a hard time explaining your passion to friends and relatives, read this book it will help.There are better books on bondage though. Sm 101 by Jay Wiseman is one of the very best. Erotic Bondage by Wiseman is also excellent.Celebrate Life -
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Title: The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance by Lorelei ISBN: 1890159190 Publisher: Greenery Pr Pub. Date: June, 2000 List Price(USD): $16.95 |
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Title: The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy ISBN: 1890159360 Publisher: Greenery Press (CA) Pub. Date: July, 2003 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton ISBN: 1890159352 Publisher: Greenery Press (CA) Pub. Date: 01 December, 2001 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman ISBN: 0963976389 Publisher: Greenery Press (CA) Pub. Date: 01 December, 1998 List Price(USD): $24.95 |
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Title: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller, Molly Devon ISBN: 0964596008 Publisher: Mystic Rose Books Pub. Date: 01 July, 1995 List Price(USD): $24.95 |
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