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Title: Good Friends Are Hard to Find: Help Your Child Find, Make and Keep Friends by Fred Frankel, Barry Wetmore ISBN: 0-9622036-7-X Publisher: Perspective Publishing Pub. Date: 01 September, 1996 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $13.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 4.56 (9 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: Comforting for parent, helpful for kids
Comment: This great book provides parents with a wealth of helful information that will make you feel more confident about the guidance you give to your kids about having friends and being friends. It will help parents help their kids understand and improve social relationships. I highly recommend this book!
Sheryl Gurrentz, author
"If Your Child is Bipolar"
"The Guilt-Free Guide to Your New Life as a Mom"
Rating: 5
Summary: Hard to Find and Hard to Keep
Comment: "Friendship is a mutual relationship formed with affection and commitment between people who consider themselves equals."
Life changes fast. Your friends are changing and you are changing and at times friends will go off in different directions. Lately someone told me a story about a friend who was like an angel to them and only appeared in their life when they needed her. She also disappeared for years at a time without telling them why.
The problem with finding friends is just that: "finding them." While you would think it was the easiest thing in the world to make friends, it really is difficult to find those amazing " once-in-a-lifetime" great pals who you can talk to about anything. Losing those people is like loosing half your soul.
Perhaps the best solution is to help your children start choosing good friends early in life. This is a book about making and keeping friends.
The Contents Include:
Finding Friends
Making Friends
Keeping Friends
Dealing with Teasing, bullying and Meanness
Helping Your Child Stay out of Trouble
Fred Frankel is a psychologist and leading expert on children?s social skills. He is the director of the UCLA Parent Training & Children's Social Skills Program. This is where he teaches pediatricians, psychologists, social workers and child psychiatrists.
He has information in this book, I had not really considered. While it might be logical, they do say that children who did not have a best friend as a child grow up to be lonely young adults. They found that friends teach us about social grace and how to solve disagreements, not to mention supporting each other through stressful times.
One of the most ingenious ideas is to develop interests that attract friends. My parents used to have birthday parties for us and bake really good cupcakes. That was sure to attract friends, however, I soon learned that often kids would be my friend just so they could have some of my lunch. My dad made the best lunches for me to take to school. This book shows you how to try to find out what your child is really interested in and encourage them in that direction.
There is also a section on how to discourage bad choices.
The section on "having friends stolen" brought back some of my own childhood memories. Losing a close friend brought back some memories from my adult life. You know when a friendship is going to end. It is just painful to see it happening. Chapter 16 shows the early, late and point of no return stages. It is good to know that grieving is ok.
One of the problems I dealt with repeatedly as a child was "moving away." Eventually I just became scared of making new friends because I knew in a few month I'd be moving again and it became painful for me to say goodbye. I maintained shallow friendships for most of my life, however some of my childhood friendships turned into long-term friendships through writing letters. The author explains how you can make this process easier for a child. Writing letters did work for me in some cases, although it is impossible to keep track of all your childhood pals.
This book can help you deal with:
Bullies
Kids that Tease your child obsessively
Calls from school telling you your child has been in a fight
A child who has ADD/ADHD or Oppositional Defiant Disorder.
A child who says they are too busy to make friends
This book has a nice index and additional information about the selections offered by the publisher.
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Rating: 5
Summary: Addresses real problems, gives practical answers
Comment: I liked this book very much. When my 8 year old encountered various situations at school I wasn't sure what to tell him to do. This book addresses real problems and gives real answers. It tells you how to help you child and what to say to them, without solving the problem FOR them. I thought it was excellent.
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Title: Raise Your Child's Social IQ: Stepping Stones to People Skills for Kids by Cathi Cohen ISBN: 0966036689 Publisher: Advantage Books Pub. Date: 01 December, 2000 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: How to Be a Friend : A Guide to Making Friends and Keeping Them by Laurie Krasny Brown ISBN: 0316111538 Publisher: Little, Brown Pub. Date: 01 September, 2001 List Price(USD): $6.99 |
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Title: Teaching Your Child the Language of Social Success by Marshall P. Duke, Elisabeth A. Martin, Stephen Nowicki Jr. ISBN: 1561451266 Publisher: Back Bay Books Pub. Date: 01 June, 1996 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: How Kids Make Friends: Secrets for Making Lots of Friends, No Matter How Shy You Are by Lonnie Michelle, Lonny Michelle ISBN: 0963815210 Publisher: Freedom Publishing Company (IL) Pub. Date: 01 March, 1997 List Price(USD): $9.95 |
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Title: Why Doesn't Anybody Like Me? : A Guide To Raising Socially Confident Kids by Hara E. Marano ISBN: 068814960X Publisher: Perennial Currents Pub. Date: 02 September, 1998 List Price(USD): $13.95 |
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