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Title: The Art of the Handwritten Note: A Guide to Reclaiming Civilized Communication by Margaret Shepherd ISBN: 0-7679-0745-0 Publisher: Broadway Books Pub. Date: 08 January, 2002 Format: Hardcover Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $16.00 |
Average Customer Rating: 4.4 (5 reviews)
Rating: 3
Summary: paean to letterwriting, but don't trust the etiquette advice
Comment: Average five stars and one star, and you get three stars. If you've heard of delectable cookbooks being referred to as "food porn," you'll understand why I might refer to the first four chapters of The Art of the Handwritten Note as "stationery porn." Shepherd describes beautifully why and how to handwrite a variety of notes and letters. I've written hundreds myself and can vouch for the soundness of her advice. And I love reading different authors on the beauties of pens and papers, as I am one of those addicts.
However, in Chapter Five, "Opportunities to Write the Note That Counts," she goes seriously astray in discussing the etiquette of letter writing. She presents her own preferences as etiquette rules, when they certainly aren't. For instance, one does not need to write thank-you letters when gifts are exchanged in person, though it is a nice touch. And one sample shows a thank-you letter for a baby shower gift signed by - ugh! - the baby. The text contradicts this sample letter, saying "You write these as the parent, acknowledging your gratitude for gifts given to your children, until the children learn to write for themselves," but the lack of captions for the sample letters makes one wonder if this was supposed to be an example of misguided cuteness. But then she says you can phone or email these thanks instead. No, no, no!
And a "printed card in the mail or an announcement in the newspaper" to respond to condolence notes? Hardly! She even allows "frank" responses to gifts one doesn't like, suggesting that you may ask the giver to exchange it for you - WHAT IS SHE THINKING??
"Dear Lytton, I already own the volume of Miss Eden's letters which you so kindly sent, but perhaps you could exchange it for a copy of 'The Princesse de Cléves,' which I do not yet have. Yrs., Virginia" -- Oh yes, your family and friends are just going to love getting THOSE sort of letters.
However, at the end there are some (intentionally) funny lists of "do's" and "don't's" for such categories as breakup notes and notes requesting help. In the phrases to use and avoid in fan letters, for example, she sagely advises the letter writer to say, "I have every one of your books," but don't say, "I bought your book for a dollar from a store that sells rejects."
This could have stayed a five-star book if the author had researched the etiquette of correspondence. Nobody but Miss Manners gets to just "make stuff up," and even Miss Manners uses that right sparingly. What one feels is natural and right may not always coincide with what one should do correctly, and I do wish the author had taken the time to learn the difference.
Rating: 5
Summary: I loved this book!
Comment: I really enjoyed this book & it has been helpful in starting me to write NOTES. I guess I thought that you had to fill up a whole page with "something". It is a lot easier to write a short amount on some nice note paper. Not as frightening as a full size sheet of paper.
I had just finished the book, when I had to write a condolence note & a welcoming note to my daughter's mother-in-law before she came to the US for a visit. The book was a big help.
I gave to all my kids for Christmas.
KM
Rating: 4
Summary: Necessary and Informative
Comment: I received this book for Christmas and it is excellent. Combined with "The Handcrafted Letter" it has inspired me to take up writing to my friends and relatives.
I plan on buying a copy of "The Art of the Handwritten Note" for all of my nieces and nephews who have yet to learn the necessity of a thank you note.
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Title: The Handcrafted Letter by Diane Maurer-Mathison, Giles D. Prett ISBN: 1580173608 Publisher: Storey Books Pub. Date: 01 March, 2001 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: Write Now: A Complete Self Teaching Program for Better Handwriting by Barbara Getty, Inga Dubay ISBN: 0876780893 Publisher: Continuing Education Press Pub. Date: 01 May, 1990 List Price(USD): $13.75 |
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Title: Just a Note to Say...: The Perfect Words for Every Occasion by Florence Isaacs ISBN: 0517703483 Publisher: Clarkson N Potter Publishers Pub. Date: 01 December, 1995 List Price(USD): $17.00 |
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Title: Business Notes: Writing Personal Notes that build Professional Relationships by FLORENCE ISAACS ISBN: 0517708914 Publisher: Clarkson Potter Pub. Date: 10 March, 1998 List Price(USD): $18.00 |
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Title: Teach Yourself Better Handwriting by Rosemary Sassoon ISBN: 0071419713 Publisher: McGraw-Hill Pub. Date: 14 January, 2003 List Price(USD): $12.95 |
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