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Title: Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way by M. Gary Neuman ISBN: 0-679-77801-2 Publisher: Random House Pub. Date: 27 July, 1999 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $16.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 5 (11 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: The #1 Resource for Divorcing Parents
Comment: This was the most comprehensive resource I found to help me understand what my children may be experiencing as a result of my divorce. It is full of both heart-wrenching and enlightening truths spoken by children of all ages. It's not a book for those who are in denial. It's for those parents who recognize that one of the major consequences of divorce is a life changing event for their children. If you want to know what you're children are really experiencing and want to help, this book is for you! Be warned, it will make you cry, feel pain for your children, and possibly resurrent feelings of guilt. But it will also give you insight and direct you in how to continue parenting effectively with love and guidance, with or without the cooperation of your ex-spouse.
In the state of Vermont, it is required by the Family Court law that divorcing parents attend a 6-hour long workshop on "co-parenting" and the effects of negative parent behavior on children. What a joke! I wish instead that the state of Vermont mandated that every divorcing parent read this resource. I learned so much more from Gary Neuman and the children and families he has worked with.
This thorough book covers every topic imaginable that is associated with divorce and family transition. The focus is from the child's perspective on matters such as validating your childrens feelings, protecting your children from conflict, separating adult issues from children's issues, custody and visitation, uncooperative parents and parent-bashing, child support and financial stress, relocating, dating, and most importantly, how children "feel" about all the ups and downs associated with this life changing event.
I highly recommend this book for every parent who is experiencing a family separation. I still pull it out periodically before I crawl into bed. It's a great "reality check" and helps keep things in perspective, still, two years after our family experienced this transition.
Rating: 5
Summary: Helpful, sensitive advice for fathers and mothers
Comment: I have read a number of books for divorcing parents, and this is by far the best. The range of information given is enormous (460 pages!) and covers almost any situation you can imagine. This is the ONLY book I have seen that discusses how to help infants cope with divorce. Neuman's discussion of the needs of children has given me the motivation to avoid fighting with my ex, even when he makes extremely aggravating remarks. His suggestions have also helped me keep my son's father involved; in fact, he spends much more time with our son than he ever did when we were married. The example dialogues are very helpful, and reflect the diversity of real families. Neuman is careful to avoid stereotypes, for example he gives anecdotes about deadbeat moms as well as deadbeat dads.
Rating: 5
Summary: EMBRACING YOUR FATHER
Comment: As a psychologist and author of "Embracing Your Father: Building the Relationship You Want with Your Dad", I teach daughters how to create more meaningful relationships with their fathers - especially after their parents divorce. I applaud this book for helping children through the difficult times after their parents divorce. Dr. Linda Nielsen author of "Embracing Your Father"
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Title: It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear: Osread-Together Book for Parents & Young Children During Divorce Mpt by Vicki Lansky, Jane Prince ISBN: 0916773477 Publisher: Book Peddlers Pub. Date: June, 2003 List Price(USD): $6.99 |
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Title: Dinosaurs Divorce by Marc Brown, Laurie Krasny Brown ISBN: 0316109967 Publisher: Little Brown & Company Pub. Date: 01 September, 1988 List Price(USD): $7.99 |
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Title: What About the Kids? Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce by Judith S. Wallerstein, Sandra Blakeslee ISBN: 0786868651 Publisher: Hyperion Press Pub. Date: 12 March, 2003 List Price(USD): $23.95 |
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Title: I Don't Want to Talk About It by Jeanie Franz Ransom, Kathryn Kunz Finney ISBN: 1557987033 Publisher: Magination Pub. Date: April, 2000 List Price(USD): $8.95 |
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Title: Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Two Homes for Your Child by Isolina Ricci ISBN: 0684830787 Publisher: Fireside Pub. Date: 18 November, 1997 List Price(USD): $10.00 |
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