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Title: Angry Men, Passive Men: Understanding the Roots of Men's Anger and How to Move Beyond It by Marvin Allen, Jo Robinson ISBN: 0449908119 Publisher: Fawcett Books Pub. Date: 1994 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $19.00 |
Average Customer Rating: 4
Rating: 4
Summary: My dear sir, everything I do is masculine! . . .
Comment: Angry Men, Passive Men - understanding the roots of men's anger and how to move beyond it. This excellent volume is replete with personal stories, examples from real life men's support groups, and knowledgeable advice from a practicing therapist. It was, apparently, first published as "In the Company of Men."
Mr. Allen presents material here that may not at first seem new to anyone reading in men's studies these days. But the added value is in the second half of the book where, after convincing us that there are serious reasons to consider why men suppress their feelings, he gives us some ideas of how to break through the barriers. He explains how we will be able to open up to a full range of feelings if we simply stop accepting "the rules written on The Man Box" we're in.
Just as the women's movement has begun to dismantle the systemic reasons for being put in "the Woman Box," men are encouraged to review how and why we are so well indoctrinated by society to fill the stereotype of "man." We have to start at home and in the society at large to correct limiting views while saving the good aspects of being male. "What men need to do," Allen tells us, "is draw some distinctions between beliefs and behaviors they want to keep and ones they want to discard. For example, they may see that being able to hide their feelings in a poker game or in the middle of a business deal works to their advantage; there are times when it's important not to show your hand. But hiding their feelings from their wives and their friends keeps them isolated and alone."
I suppose the best recommendation, or review, of this book I can give you is to mention that I have ordered a dozen copies (from Amazon.com of course!) to give to friends and to use in my own men's group. I recommend this excellent work for any man or woman interested in learning more about the male psychology.
Rating: 4
Summary: A guide to breaking free of deadly male stereotypes
Comment: Marv Allen provides an insightful journey through male psychology. I found the book very helpful.
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Title: LIVING WITH THE PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE MAN by Scott Wetzler ISBN: 0671870742 Publisher: Fireside Pub. Date: 01 October, 1993 List Price(USD): $12.00 |
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Title: Emotional Unavailability : Recognizing It, Understanding It, and Avoiding Its Trap by Bryn C. Collins ISBN: 0809229145 Publisher: McGraw-Hill/Contemporary Books Pub. Date: 11 March, 1998 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: Is It You or Is It Me?: Why Couples Play the Blame Game by Scott Wetzler, Diane Cole ISBN: 0060930292 Publisher: HarperCollins (paper) Pub. Date: 1999 List Price(USD): $12.95 |
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Title: Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men: How to Free Yourself from the Grip of Anger and Get More Out of Life by Thomas J. Harbin ISBN: 1569246211 Publisher: Marlowe & Company Pub. Date: 14 March, 2000 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: Compelled to Control: Recovering Intimacy in Broken Relationships by Keith Miller, J. Keith Miller ISBN: 1558744614 Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 1997 List Price(USD): $11.95 |
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