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Title: Silently Seduced : When Parents Make their Children Partners - Understanding Covert Incest by Kenneth Adams ISBN: 1-55874-131-3 Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 01 April, 1991 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $7.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 5 (5 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: Finally! A relief to understand!
Comment: The author describes in detail what kind of actions from a parent can create an inappropriate dependency from a child, the resulting feelings that can stay with the child and the patterns of behavior through adulthood that follow. Subtle things that might seem innocent in a parent's mind can actually cross a line into inappropriate territory with a child and his/her development. The child may feel "icky," but also privileged to have such special attention from the parent.
The author offers advice for recovery and gives very clear statements about what must happen in order for the adult survivor of covert incest to make healthy changes and free him/herself from binding dependencies.
I purchased this book based on a recommendation on a message board. Wow! I am filled with relief to suddenly realize why I feel this way and why there are these inexplicable patterns in my life. The biggest relief of all is to know I'm not alone and that my odd feelings about my parents are not unjustified. I read it and said, "Finally! Now I know what is wrong!"
If you feel guilty about setting limits on your parents, this book is for you. If you are having difficulty connecting with your spouse and find yourself connecting more with your kids, please read this book.
Rating: 5
Summary: Illuminating the Roller-Coaster Relationship
Comment: I was blown away by the down-to-earth descriptions of "psychological marriage" with a parent, how it develops and how it affects future romantic relationships. I was comforted to be able to understand, yet challenged to take action. It explained all of my recent relationship dilemnas with my partner so much that I felt it was written about us. I was comforted to realize that there were real reasons for our problems and yet, I feel scared to open up this topic for discussion between us. My partner has limited insight. Thank you for helping me see that I am not imagining things or going crazy!
Rating: 5
Summary: Do NOT miss this book
Comment: The single most important thing I have read in my adult life. It's scary but helpful to find oneself being totally described in the pages of a book...and I found this happening to me here.
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Title: The Emotional Incest Syndrome : What to do When a Parent's Love Rules Your Life by Jo Robinson, Dr. Patricia Love ISBN: 055335275X Publisher: Bantam Pub. Date: 01 February, 1991 List Price(USD): $15.95 |
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Title: Betrayal of Innocence: Incest and Its Devastation by Susan Forward, Craig Buck ISBN: 014011002X Publisher: Penguin USA (Paper) Pub. Date: September, 1988 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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Title: Father-Daughter Incest (with a new Afterword) by Judith Lewis Herman ISBN: 0674002709 Publisher: Harvard Univ Pr Pub. Date: 05 May, 2000 List Price(USD): $16.95 |
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Title: The Mother I Carry: A Memoir of Healing from Emotional Abuse by Louise M. Wisechild ISBN: 1878067389 Publisher: Seal Press Pub. Date: November, 1993 List Price(USD): $12.95 |
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Title: Secret Survivors by E. Sue Blume ISBN: 0345369793 Publisher: Ballantine Books Pub. Date: 13 February, 1991 List Price(USD): $7.99 |
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