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Title: Surviving an Affair by Willard F. Harley Jr., Jennifer Harley Chalmers ISBN: 0-8007-1758-9 Publisher: Fleming H Revell Co Pub. Date: October, 1998 Format: Hardcover Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $19.99 |
Average Customer Rating: 4.32 (25 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: Hope and Help when there was No Hope and No Help
Comment: Whether you are male or female, married or divorced, if you or your spouse have been through an affair, this book is a resource that can bring help, healing, hope, and best of all, recovery for your marriage.
Dr. Harley demonstrates practical steps regarding all aspects of an affair: before, during, after, who, what, why, when, where, etc. You'll be amazed at how simple marriage can be after you and your spouse have worked through this material. It is truly life changing.
Don't be in agony any longer. Get this resource and end the suffering today.
Rating: 3
Summary: Some Good Points, Lousy Case Study, Bad Ending
Comment: It may be too early in my husband's affair time line to do a fair review of this book, but I still wish I could get my money back. The book has good information about both partners in the marraige who are invovled in an affair, but the case study with the wife having the affair was too bizarre! The poor, cheated on husband should be up for sainthood! The man took crap for almost two years and gave his wife every thing she wanted to make it easy for her. He wasn't allowed to express his anger or even TALK about the affair, just do every thing he could to make her feel "secure". Sorry, the wife made a mistake, a very BIG mistake, and according to this book, she was punished more by her lover (who eventually dumped her) than by her forgiving husband. I believe BOTH partners are to blame for a troubled marriage, but nobody forced her into bed with the other man. After all the pain and trouble of patching up their marriage, the ending is really anticlimatic (pardon the pun). We just hear that they stayed together, are severely in dept, and learned how to communicate with each other. Definitely a book to check out at the library, but not buy.
Rating: 5
Summary: Realistic, practical advice
Comment: I bought this book because I have no less than THREE different friends whose marriages are suffering the effects of affairs--all of them emotional, not physical. Some of the other reviews cite that the examples are unrealistic, but I found that many, many of the details (including the long-suffering faithful husband) are exactly what my friends are experiencing. Furthermore, this book helped me gain a little insight into why two of the cheating spouses have expressed no regret--that the faithful spouse needs to honestly assess how he/she may have contributed to the marriage being vulnerable in the first place. This book has been helpful as I have sought to help my friends, for different parts have been directly applicable to their situations and have provided practical help. There are no happy endings--yet--but the clear advice in this book is helping them to gain some sense of clarity as they hear that there are others with similar situations, feelings and struggles. It is also helping them gain stability as the book gives specific suggestions on steps to take. Note that at no point in the book do the authors guarantee that a marriage will be rebuilt. It is a given assumption throughout the book that a marriage can only be rebuilt if both husband and wife are willing to try.
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Title: After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis A. Spring ISBN: 0060928174 Publisher: Perennial Pub. Date: 26 March, 1997 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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Title: His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr. ISBN: 0800717880 Publisher: Fleming H Revell Co Pub. Date: March, 2001 List Price(USD): $19.99 |
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Title: Surviving Infidelity: Making Decisions, Recovering from the Pain by Rona Subotnik, Gloria Harris ISBN: 1580621376 Publisher: Adams Media Corporation Pub. Date: May, 1999 List Price(USD): $10.95 |
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Title: Repairing Your Marriage After His Affair : A Guide for Healing and Rebuilding Trust by Marcella Weiner, BCD CSW Armand DiMele ISBN: 0761509631 Publisher: Prima Lifestyles Pub. Date: 09 September, 1998 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: Love Busters: Overcoming Habits That Destroy Romantic Love by Willard F., Jr. Harley ISBN: 0800718070 Publisher: Fleming H Revell Co Pub. Date: January, 2002 List Price(USD): $19.99 |
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